Mila Quilted Nursing Shawl

When I had my first baby fifteen years ago, I struggled to figure out how to do anything while nursing, let alone babywear at the same time. Now, three children later, I can practically nurse while doing cartwheels (kidding!). Let me share everything I've learned about combining babywearing and breastfeeding – it's truly a game-changer.

Getting Started: The Basics

First, master nursing and babywearing separately. This is crucial. You wouldn't try to juggle while riding a unicycle without learning each skill first, right? Make sure you're comfortable with your carrier and have established a good breastfeeding routine.

Choosing the Right Carrier

Not all carriers are created equal when it comes to nursing. In my experience, these work best:

Ring slings:

• Easiest to adjust one-handed
• Perfect for newborns
• Great for quick position changes

Soft structured carriers:

• More supportive for longer wearing
• Better for older babies
• Usually have adjustable height options

Wrap carriers:

• Most versatile
• Greatest learning curve
• Best for custom positioning

Step-by-Step Guide

Here's my tried-and-true method:

• Start with your carrier slightly looser than usual
• Position baby slightly lower than your typical wearing height
• Ensure baby's head is at breast level
• Loosen the strap on the side you'll be nursing from
• Support baby's head while latching
• Once latched, tighten everything back up

Pro Tips from Years of Experience

• Wear nursing-friendly clothing (button-downs are your friend!)
• Practice at home first – maybe over your bed or couch
• Keep one hand free for support until you're confident
• Use a mirror to check positioning
• Consider baby's age and head control

Common Mistakes to Avoid

I've made all of these mistakes so you don't have to:

• Starting too tight
• Trying too early (wait until nursing is well-established)
• Forgetting to burp baby afterward
• Not checking baby's airway regularly

Safety First

Always remember:

• Keep baby's face visible
• Maintain proper hip positioning
• Check breathing space frequently
• Return baby to regular carrier position after feeding

Building Confidence

Don't get discouraged if it feels awkward at first. I remember crying in frustration trying to figure this out with my first baby while wearing a wrap that made me feel like a mummy, not a mommy. Now it's second nature. Start in private, maybe with someone nearby for support. Each attempt gets easier.

When to Seek Help

If something doesn't feel right, trust your instincts. A certified babywearing consultant or lactation consultant can be invaluable. I worked with both for my first baby, and their guidance was worth every penny.

The Benefits Are Worth It

Being able to nurse while babywearing has allowed me to:

• Shop for groceries
• Keep up with older children
• Travel more easily
• Maintain some privacy while nursing in public
• Stay connected with baby while getting things done

Remember, mama, you're doing amazing. This is just one tool in your parenting toolkit, and it's okay if it takes time to master. Be patient with yourself, and know that thousands of mothers before you have figured this out – and you will too.

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